So, there was this article that was trending on facebook by thoughtcatalog on "50 deep questions to ask your boyfriend tonight that will immediately bring you two closer"
click here (if you want to try out!)
Especially useful when both is in the midst of argument and don't want to give in lollol. So here's my answers if you are interested in finding out about us. I am picking 10 questions from the list and answer them as below.
Question1. What did you think when you first met Brian? What do you remember most about the night/day you two first met?
When we first met that was three years, and it was on the cab. I was panting and started having running nose accompanied with mucus, and I asked Brian for some tissues. Unfortunately he didn't bring and he asked the cab driver whether he can spare us some! I was honestly feeling so sick that day and contemplated not to attend the social night :( sorry.. But I was feeling bad about wasting that night's ticket and being a good friend who honors her promise, I went! It was the best decision ever hahahaha
I guess gentleman and sincerity, smile!! To be honest I really love guys that can speak well and be extremely gentle! Quit exciting, rushing from work and to the dinner. I remembered that Brian carried my bag and I broke my heels.. He carried the heels and I wore his super big shoes.
Question2: What’s your favorite memory of you two?
I guess my favourite memory was the time when we are not together yet. I was feeling quite devastated, so I gave you plenty of sad text replies and he came to look for me! We walked to punggol waterway towards sengkang and saw many trees. Back then, he told me this, "if you are my girlfriend, I will definitely make sure that this whole stretch of trees will be your surprises" #oklor win already. Then.. there was the day that we won a villa for ourselves and I almost burst in tears!! It was incredible and we scoot off to bali for 3 awesome days! Drove motorcycle, from semiyak to a nearby city without license, and splurge on all the yummy pastas.
In Japan, walking the whole stretch of tokyo (harujuku-shinjuku) shivering and he gave me his coat without hesitation. We struggled (LOL) held hands and brought the chicken cutlet from macdonalds and cup noodles to our apartment. Had a great rest and went disneyland next morning. I really miss japan. ☹️ Also in china, the big surprise to find me!!! He accompanied to work every single day (except one day he spend with pro, the cat) without any complains! #goodboyfriend
Question 3: What’s one thing you want to do together that we’ve never done before?
To attend a wedding together. Always love weddings and I know we will have opportunity soon!
Question 4: What about Brian made you fall in love?
I guess is his sincerity, your genuine heart and kindness. Everything to do to make me happy. I love how you still care even though I made you angry at times. Although still mad will cover blanket for me, kiss my forehead before going to school/work and blow my hair dry and massage when I'm feeling tired :')
Question5: If you had one word to describe our love what would it be?
I would describe it as unforgettable. So many memories together! Compromising is tough at times, not being together is tougher. Nevertheless we've been through quite abit. And we are still learning to appreciate (especially me la- haha he always say I forget but thing is I put it in my heart secretly!!) and hopefully become better partners la haha
I tell people i will marry him hor
Question6: What’s one similarity between us that you absolutely love?
Woo!! Freedom and trust by our parents! That is why we constantly can travel together and being comfortable at both of our homes. My family sees him as a son and constantly ask his whereabouts.
Question7:Is love something that scares you?
Yes......but i guess it is worth taking risk for.
Question8: If something happened where Brian had to move very far away, would you attempt long-distance? Or go our separate ways?
Of course long distance relationship!! Honestly I think I am absolutely capable of that. I mean being in china for a good 2 months, never did my heart waiver before. Neither do Brian did! In fact I think it brought us closer? There are times I miss him badly :(
Question9. What’s one thing you’re scared to ask me, but really want to know the answer to?
When you going marry me.........JK
HAHAHAHA
Cause I really got a shocked when he said 30 years old then propose. Being a guy ok.
Being a girl.
".............."
Question10. What do you think is our biggest strength in this relationship?
We can't stay angry at each other for long!! At least for me. I tend to forgive and forget unless something really big happen. I can angry for a minute and then next second smile and be happy! And we appreciate our time spent- be it just studying, eating while sharing how our day went.
But I think biggest strength lies with Brian. I don't think I am a ready mature girlfriend but thank god for his big heart. I mean sometimes I can be a good friend > bad girlfriend or I make bad choices. So I am thankful for you. :)
Thanks for reading! It feels like I am gibberish-ing to myself. But that's 10 question I am answering tonight! xxx
