Thing about life I have learn is, "never put your guard off and be too comfortable with somebody else." Because when you're to comfortable, you learn to stop trying/putting efforts in whatever you're having. Pretty disappointed to see how relationship couldn't withstand problems/looking at friends dealing with breakups. We're different in nature so why can't we bridge the differences? And that best ever classical excuse was " we don't meant for each other and we have clashing personalities" big LOL (laugh out loud here sorry). You mean you thought that you're dating your "assuming clone" all the time? Joke. And i couldn't agree more than love is a pure waste of time unless both are game for it till marriage. Too young, to know what's love. Never will I gonna spend months/years on another person effortlessly to get back all the pain i couldn't ever imagine.